A Servant Leader
1. Includes his wife in envisioning the future
2. Accepts spiritual responsibility for his wife and family
3. Is willing to say, "I am sorry" and "forgive me"
4. Discusses household responsibilities with his wife and makes sure that they are fairly distributed
5. Seeks the consultation of his wife in everything and about everything
6. Follows through with commitments made to his wife
7. Anticipates the different stages his marriage will pass through.
8. Must anticipate the different stages his kids will pass through and he changes with them
9. Frequently tells his wife what he likes about her
10. Provides for his family's basic living expenses
11. Deals with distractions so that he can talk with his wife and kids
12. Prays with his wife and kids on a regular basis
13. Initiates meaningful family traditions
14. Initiates fun outings with his family on a regular basis
15. Takes time to give his children practical instruction about life, which, in turn, gives them confidence with their peers
16. Manages the schedule and deals with distractions
17. Keeps his family financially sound and out of harmful debt
18. Has drawn up a will and knows what will happen to his kids and his family in case of death
19. Lets his wife and children into the interior of his life
20. Honors his wife often in public
21. Explains sex to each of his children in a way that gives them a wholesome perspective
22. Sits down with his wife and encourages her to grow as an individual
23. Takes the lead in establishing with his wife sound, biblical family values
24. Joins a small group of men who are dedicated to improving their skills as a man, husband and father
25. Allows time for his wife to pursue her own private interests